If you’ve ever had surgery, you know it’s a big deal. Even so-called minor surgeries usually require some down time and extended limitations for recovery. A good doctor will try a variety of things if they can before they move to surgery. Even though surgery is sometimes necessary, it’s not often preferable.

If you get a small cut on your finger, what you need is a dab of antibiotic ointment and a bandage, not an amputation. You don’t get surgery when a Band-Aid will do.

As church leaders we have to govern our passions. Situations arise that cause problems. This shouldn’t shock us because we live in a world broken by and infected with sin. Problems and issues are a part of the fall.

Often, even a problem that seems big in the moment ends up being a drop in the bucket when everything is said and done. Our overreactions are like running into the room with a meat cleaver when we need the first aid kit.

Very few situations require an immediate response. We don’t have to jump out of our seat at every negative statement or concern that is shared. We can take a moment, step back, take a breath, and ponder an appropriate response. Even in Emergency Departments, they refer to this as triage. With training and maturity, we grow more adapt at separating real emergencies from in-the-moment hysteria.

When we face a problem, instead of getting swept up in the moment, we should assess the situation, strive to be a non-anxious presence, and help the church move forward in a positive way. Keep control of yourself, and it will go a long way in helping you figure out the appropriate response.

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